Struggling with boys names

I'm a mum of all girls so thought choosing a boys name would be easy since I have no boys but omg it has been so much harder, they are either basic and boring or weird names lol.... 12yo Jasynta (Jacinta) 10yo Scarlett 16 month old Ella Due in august. My mum is pushing for Eli or Colt. But it isn't what I like. I like Zander, Jasper, Grayson, Tatum, Koa or Thomas aka Tommy after my poppy. Middle name most likely will be Desmond or Desmond-charles. Please help me with what you like or some other names I could consider.

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I've always fancied the name Jasper.. and I was hoping for a boy this pregnancy (got a girl) but I was initially considering the name Andrew I also like the name Nathaniel

I have liked Jasper for so long lol Got 2 friends with little ones called Nathaniel

@NIKKI sounds like jasper will be the winner haha. Do you have a partner at all? If so, what do they think?

@Moira yeah I have a partner but his hopeless lol. He likes zander but hasn't commented on any other things

Personally from the names you've given, I like Koa and Thomas best, both go well with Desmond and both flow lovely with sisters names. But I do also love Jasper (and Eli also). All your daughters have very different names to one another so far so I would consider that "Jas"ynta and "Jas"per are quite similar sounding. Names I'd consider based off sibling names are: Blaise Desmond Caiden Desmond Harley Desmond Ruben Desmond Theo Desmond Pierce Desmond Gabriel (Gabe) Desmond Julian Desmond Sebastian Desmond Alistair Desmond

My son is Eli! We didn't like Elijah, and hubs didn't like Elliot, but we went with Elias and like it quite a bit. I think Zander is super cute! I had Grayson on my list but my last name is a color and I couldn't do it🤣 You could always do Charles Desmond! And call him Charlie! Some other names I like, in case one sticks🥰 Liam Owen Luke Kai Henry Gideon Noah Nash River Marcus Weston Jesse Edmund

I definitely would not do Eli, it's too close to Ella. I like all the names you listed, but with the other names and the middle names, I think I like Zander and Thomas the best.

@Katrina yeah Eli is to close to Ella, and I haven't done all my other kids similar so don't want to do it now. But yes thinking of a name not starting with the same letter as the others do they are all different.