How do yall deal with your Hubs

Was this the same before? Or did smth change. Ask him why does he have only this much sex drive?

My ex was the same way. He has a terrible porn addiction though. My fiance now is on the same level as me. Which is nice. It's not just nice because, well, fucking. Lol but we connect more and miss each other more when we don't have the time for sex. If he's always been like this, girl, it might be time to move on.

Mine sex drive dropped considerably when he got a high demand job. Has ur husband job changed or got more demanding

Needing more contexts What’s his way and terms? How does he respond to you when you tell him this? What happens when or if you just start seggy time trying to initiate it?

Girl message me ! I’m in the same boat as you!

You know I been saying the same thing about my man. Like we are kids free for a week and no sex. I come to bed half naked and have my ass face him, and he still won't give me none. Just fall asleep on me.

Okay sorry yall with the late reply! Context: we are working on our marriage from him cheating previously. (Emotional but idc it’s all the same to me, cheating is cheating) he has done some work but I don’t feel like it’s enough. He has a low stress job right now and he’s making good money so that’s stable but he still says he’s “stressed” he has had a drug addiction so he says that plays a part in how much/ or not he wants sex. He’s always been this way although he set the bar high at first. We had sex 16 times on our honeymoon. When we got back I guess reality hit and since then he’s only had sex with me at most twice a week. Now I’m lucky if it’s twice a month. I did gain weight but I’m working on that. However that shouldn’t affect anything if you love someone. But I can literally walk around naked and he’s not turned on, doesn’t try and touch me and every time I’ve asked for sex hes brushed it off. He says he “wants” to but doesn’t show that

I’ve had SO many conversations with him over the years about it. Expressing myself very well and calmly. Sometimes I’ve even been brought to tears because I need it and want it so badly but he “can’t get it up” or has some other excuse. Which is a lie. He jerked off to other girls when he cheated on me all the time. So I don’t get that. At all. I feel like he’s just not attracted to me but he says he is and that I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen. I just feel like that’s a joke because if he feels that way why doesn’t he want me physically

Have you tried marriage counseling.

@Tiffany yep. 3 different councilors

OMG!!!! gurrrllll Samee!!! 😠😭 like wtf!! We amg hubby only gives me once a week and I pregnant so im always Down for sex!! But he don't give me Enough Dick!! And I get sooo Moody and annoyed with Him!!😡🍆🍆🍆🍆

Pregnancy is hard on the mom and the relationship. I say this as I am currently going through my own challenges and challenges in my relationship. But at the end of the day. No relationship is easy. The ones that last forever take work, forgiveness, and communication. And lots of each. But it also takes 2. We all need to either out in the work, have the tough conversations, and find a way to help our partners do the same. Or we walk away. No relationship is 50/50. They are on a sliding scale. Sometimes it's 80/20 and others 10/90. Some days it's 50/50 or 60/40. It's a dance with the lead partners alternating to the beat of life's music. Find a way to stay on the dance floor and never let the song end.