I'm not sure I understand the situation...but I will sometimes take my friends and family out for dinner to a really nice place as a gift. I'm not talking about chain places, more higher end. I also wouldn't expect anything from anyone aside from my husband and child on mother's day.
I wouldn’t expect a gift from my mother/mil for Mother’s Day. I’d be the one giving them a gift however.
I wouldn’t expect anyone expect my husband/child to give me a gift for Mother’s Day.