Community Posts, Tips & Support on Adoption, Fostering & Surrogacy

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HSG examination

Hey ladies I have my HSG examination next week and was wondering if I could have some info if you’ve had it. Any tips or heads up!! Also can I return to work or would you recommend booking the rest of the day off? Thank you

Incognito
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Do I have baby no 2?? Decision is so hard.

So financially we can afford baby no2 My biggest fear is my nearly 2 year old feeling left out? He’s my absolute world and we have the most amazing bond will another baby change this? I would love for my boy to grow up with a sibling and not be alone but I’m so scared about his feelings xx

Incognito
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Waiting

and the wait is on💕 how long did it take for you guys to get you’re results after the lab received them ?

J
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My bio mom

So i was adopted within my fam by my dads mom when i was 8 due to my parents using drugs. I stopped contacting my bio mom around that time and haven't really thought about her till recently. Shes tried contacting me since i turned 18 (im 19 now). Im 10 weeks pregnant and i cant stopped thinking about the fact that s...

Incognito
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First transfer success rate?

I have my first FET transfer in 12 days (May 8th) .I’m already having pregnancy nightmares and IVF nightmares. I wanted to know how many of you guys were successful on the first transfer and if you weren’t, how many transfers did it take. I know everyone is different but I feel like maybe hearing other peoples exper...

K
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Quick question 🙋‍♀️😂

Can I still put him on Child Support even though he wasn’t in the delivery room when my daughter was born because he saying I can’t put him on child support because he wasn’t in the delivery room😂😂😂🤨🗣️💯‼️

W
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Dad on birth certificate

When registering your baby can you add the dad at a later date if you don’t want him on it for parental concerns ? Uk based Any advice, thanks

Incognito
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How much colostrum is everyone getting at a time?

I’ve just started today and feel like I’ve done ok but just wanting to know how others are getting on

S
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2nd FET after MC

Hey!! We are looking into our 2nd FET this June, when we come back off Holiday. So will be using my menstrual cycle of May. We transferred in October 2021, which sadly resulted in a miscarriage at 5 weeks. We really need this one to be successful (I know everyone is in the same boat) But, does anyone have any ...

Incognito
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Egg retrieval

Send me all the good vibes for my first ever egg retrieval tomorrow morning!!! And send all your love and prayers that our little embryos grow and can be freshly transfer and the rest frozen!! Any tips for after care from the retrieval!?

L
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